Well I will use last month as an example. Had a younger fella at work that has shot with his military cousin on occasion and says he can't hit anything with a rifle. A flyer come around for a Sporting clay shoot thru a supplier. I started nagging on him we should go, and he said I've never shot one before. I says, "I can teach ya" - "when?" Me- "Today, right after work" And so we did. Talked range safety on the drive out, Started out with lil single shot break actions, working on firearm function, proper form, and of course safety. Then onto bigger bores, also transitioning from stationary target, to sweeping a hanging target and finally I broke out the thrower. HOLY COW- Mr. I've-never was busting clays left and right, no matter what I put in his hands! .410/ 20/ 12/ even the ol cowboy coach gun!
Two days later he is the proud owner of a Mossy 500, and thrower, brick of shells and case o clays asking-when can we do that again?
Word traveled, now I have a couple younger gals that want to go shootin' too.
That only makes a couple THIS year, with more to come. But I think the moral here is if they show that interest- get them out there before they change their minds or someone changes it for them.
And (as I learned from Mr UPcrawfish there, ) no matter what discipline, don't bore them with all the book work; a quick safety talk, get the gun in their hands, talk about how it works, and get a shot off ASAP. It doesn't matter if they miss on the first shot, it is mostly a Hey that didn't hurt me, and I'm still alive. Once the newbie has crossed that threshold, now it's time to focus on the specifics. Especially on pistol/ rifle, I like to work thru fundamentals one by one, correcting one little thing- stance, hold, breath, trigger, etc and let them watch their groups get smaller and smaller, that way they can see how each little thing affects the outcome.
Side note: Same young fella wants to do Rifle and pistol, but " I don't wanna start off with some little .22, I wanna something manly" I explained to him " On MY Range, we start out on .22. If you can't put down good fundamentals with a .22, I ain't puttin' anything big in yer hands. " Sure I could throw a .45-70 or Mosin at him and laugh, but I don't operate that way. And anyways, I always buy (the ammo) on the first round, sooo.... .22 it is.