Maybe it's just me but it seems like a lot of our woes in society today can boil down to an extreme lack of personal responsibility. If you commit a crime you do the time, not yell, "But my parents abused me as a child."
Most of us had a rough time in their life but we pulled up our britches and got on with life. I except the responsibility for protecting my family and do what I can to be ready to protect and provide for them.
Something is missing from what our kiddos have been learning these days.