Just as a responsible and legal gun owner doesn't go around shooting people, your typical, everyday gamer or movie-goer isn't going to go on a rampage either. But, I do entirely agree with you in that I can't but help think that these types of media surely could affect certain influential minds. Daily doses of infinite "lives" in a video game that has access to a full gamut of weapons, optics and even heavy artillery is pretty impressive. Knowing that if you die, you will quickly re-spawn. Also, you are rewarded for "shooting" other players. Anyone who has ever played COD knows what its like to be at the bottom of the score card and envious of the guy at the top (based on the appropriately named "Kill/Death ratio"). There is no remorse what so ever in shooting another player...and many times a dead soldier can be seen being "tea bagged" by his killer.
In the movies, we all know that a revolver in the hands of the main star can out-shoot an entire platoon of full auto rifles. Whether the main character is a good guy or bad guy, he is a hero...and always gets the girl. He can't die and in those rare cases where he does die, he is made out as a martyr with emotional music and special effects.
You know, I know and a few million other people know that this is literally just a game or literally just a movie. Both are good for our imaginations. But to an influential mind, to what effect does endless life and no remorse start to overwhelm basic morals? Should our Government institute background checks and psychic evaluations before being issued video game purchase permits? Obviously no. To me, that is where "we" are failing. As parents and responsible members of society, we need to insure our kids understand simple values. We need to be involved in their lives and we need to be aware of our kids social behaviors. Thankfully, most of us are on top of this.
I do agree that we should be more on the offensive though, but initially we need to focus on some very simple facts that they cannot dispute. First off, I am all for gun control. I surely don't mind our current gun laws and regulations. I am all for current purchase background checks. I do feel that as citizens we should not be allowed to own full auto rifles. I agree that a more thorough background check and a Purchase Permit is required for handgun purchases. I agree guns should be cased when being transported (CCP exempt of course). In other words, I really don't have any problem with current gun laws.
But, it is fact that our current laws are often not enforced and/or result in no prosecution. It should be proven that no model or type of rifle is any more "deadly' because of its shape or color (side note...as a fledgling historical military rifle collector, I can't help but sometimes chuckle when reading all this hype about the AR-15. I own one, love it and shoot it as often as I can. But man, there are countless times where the real hard-core gun guys would bash this rifle over and over. A few years ago, only the "mall ninjas" were AR fans. Now everyone is! Anyway...). There are many known, proven topics and "bullet points" that we can unite behind and remain focused on. Many of the pro-gun control statements I've heard and read are simply false or intentional misrepresentations. In most cases, these guys have the financial resources to gloss over their uninformed statements and lies. To be honest, that's the only reason they have any chance of success.
As with most things in life, if you stick to the truth, you can prevail. Either way, that's how I'd go down fighting.
Good topic and thank you for bringing it up.