When I got back into the gun buying phase of my life about 3 years ago I passed up quite a few different 9mm’s. I had one (Walther P-38, former German Poletzi weapon, should never have sold it) and loved it, but was looking for something different. I knew I wanted a concealable gun as I had plans to get my permit and none of the weapons I had at the time (not including the .25acp Raven I still own) were suited from a concealment standpoint. Sure, I could tuck that .25acp into just about any nook or cranny you can think of, but let’s face it the .25acp is a pretty lousy personal defense round. Last ditch, just before I start throwing shoes, maybe (I have big feet), but its small and slow and has less penetration than a 22LR. Beside the rounds are expensive as heck!
I settled on the 40S&W as my round of choice and went looking. OMG there are a lot of guns out there! And every person who sells them has an opinion of every single one, and few agree on anything. 40S&W, quite good stopping power, not going to eat my wrist to practice with or my wallet, more rounds in a mag than a .45 yet fewer than a 9mm, a good round given all the choices available and after ignoring most of the opinions I was given.
I eventually stopped in at a local pawn shop and found the one I wanted. Small, 40S&W, not real expensive, and as ugly as my grandmothers dog. Perfect. I still have it, it’s my primary carry weapon, but I still occasionally mix in the PK-380 I have or the P90DC (drags my pants down, but I like knowing its there), but that .40 is most always within reach.
IMHO the point is to make a hole. Large or small, fast or slow, and as many as necessary, but make a hole. They can all do it (maybe not the .25acp, but it’s a cute little thing), and even if it does not do everything you want it to do at least you went down fighting. Of course I would prefer that they went down, but we don’t always get what we want.