Mudinyeri...just because you want to use a partial definition and claim so many others use it (WHICH I HAVE ALREADY RECOGNIZED AND EXPLAINED, which shows that you didn't actually read everything I wrote...or just didn't understand it... or just disregarded it). You can try and play word games and use fragmented definitions all you want...they won't work with me, I use complete definitions which are in "common usage" as you like to claim.
Off the grid is simply that, leaving the infrastructure behind... including all of its conveniences and comforts... all of it. No utilities (water, sewage, gas, electricity, etc.), disconnected from the infrastructures that makes life convenient (including roads, banks, schools, doctors, stores, etc.), no internet, no phone, none of it. Yes, one must give up all the unnecessary conveniences/comforts that have created such an unhealthy dependency on each other and organizations to be truly/completely off-grid.
Can someone be partially off-grid (i.e. solar/wind/water electricity, septic/outhouse, etc. but still have internet, phone, have a gas line or get propane)? Of course. But propane is not an off-grid option as I have explained a few times already.
To use propane at all requires one use the road grid. Then it requires one to utilize the consumer grid (stores, which get their propane from the gas company, thus you are back to using the gas grid). Then you must use the financial grid (even if you pay cash). Then you must utilize the road grid to get it back to your property. (if delivered, only the names change, same process.) So, do tell how propane is off-the-grid? Again, all propane does is change you from using one kind of grid to using another... you are still dependent. And on top of that, in order to use said road grid, you are being forced to use the government grid... thus increasing your dependency further.
The moment you can procure (meaning gather, pressurize, bottle, etc.) propane yourself from your own resources on your property ... then you can claim it to be off-grid.
As I already recognized, you and many others may be
PARTIALLY (or at least heading in that direction) off the grid and have a head start in some areas and ways that buy you a bit of time....but you are not off the grid, not truly or completely.
Basically, if another person must continually provide it for you (i.e. someone must gather, refine, bottle, pressurize, ship, etc. the propane), you are on a grid of some kind if not multiple grids. Again, you as so many others are failing to see are
ALL the grids that are really involved... again, there is direct and indirect, but grids all the same.
Can you utilize the grids in order to move towards going off-grid? Of course (buy what you want... if you can... personally, I don't have the financial resources)...how you get there is of no real importance... maintaining the off-grid status after the switch is what makes it truly off-grid. But this post was for those that either have no money or it's too late to purchase...something simple that can use the resources already in their homes and can be maintained by THEIR OWN abilities/skills/efforts.
Do you have to go off-grid completely and immediately? No, not until one absolutely must. But until that time, they are not truly and completely off-grid. You can be partially off-grid for time being.
You are only partially off-grid, but propane is not off-grid.
VERY few people are prepared to live like I did growing up. Most don't have the knowledge and skills. Many simply don't have the "gumption".
And those people are not yours nor my problem, if we want to help we can...but we don't have to...and they can perish, it's their problem. But those that are looking for a way and have a desire to learn or "gumption" but are just overwhelmed or not sure where to begin, just need a little nudge.
Basically, it's like those living in the areas hit by Katrina or Sandy, or other natural occurrences (I don't call them disasters, they are normal things to happen, not somethings so strange and out of the norm)...I have no pity for them, they had warnings days/weeks in advance (especially in this day and age). They know they live in a such zones. If they fail to prepare themselves and have suitable supplies/means, that's their problem and they can deal with it. It was their CHOICE to not prepare and ignore warnings, they can deal with the consequences.
I have told many people not to waste money on buying name brand shoes/cloths, candy bars, sodas, and such; buy a pair of cheap stuff (they tend to last about just as long, popular fashion is simply not important) and then put the rest of the money towards buying supplies like a few cases of bottled water.