I see your wife is Special Forces... ( sorry I couldn't help it!)
All joking aside, it's sounds like you're enjoying the rifle, and I have heard that there is a couple companies that are lookin into tuning the triggers on them.
As a new-ish tavor owner, I'll bring this one back. The rifle definitely needs some mods. The default rail is about 1/2" too low for most AR-15 scopes, you can get a raised one for around $100. The default trigger is a horrible 12 lb pull, can be modified down to 8 lbs, either way there are a few 2-stage triggers out there but all in the $300 range.
The default butt-pad is also pretty pad. All being said I put a $350 geissele super sabra trigger in it, a raised rail from Gear Head Works, a curved buttstock and forend grip from Manticore arms (the latter being mostly cosmetic). Oh an a Jerry Miculek muzzle brake for ****s and giggles. It cost quite a bit to modify but it is definitely my most favorite rifle. And as someone else pointed out, it's actually shorter than some SBR's.