I said earlier:
"Does only one of you carry? Have you thought about what that means in terms of protecting each other? (What, you thought it was all you? It doesn't work that way.)"Awhile back, I ran a drill in my Hapkido class for a couple of my female students. They are good friends, spend lots of time together, and both have been taking my martial arts class for quite awhile (one for several years). In other words, they know each other quite well. We talked about self-defense, and then did a couple of quick scenarios---and they were shocked to find out how important it was to understand the other person's choices and reactions, and how even being good friends didn't give them enough information to work together effectively under stress.
What do YOU do when your loved one is the one who is menaced? Do you just start to pull a gun when there is a knife to your partner's throat? (You'll probably get them killed if you do that, by the way. This isn't the movies.)
What if no one is being directly menaced, it is just generalized to the both of you---how do you know when to move? And move to do what? What is your role? What are your capabilities, and how do they fit into the situation to help keep both of you safe? Should you even do anything? Who makes that choice? How do they let their partner know?
This class is for partners where both carry, OR where only one carries, OR where sometimes neither of you carry---
what do you need to work together effectively to keep both of you unharmed and safe?This is just a short seminar, but it will get you started on understanding the importance of communication and prior conceptual planning so that you can stay safe.
This seminar has no acrobatic requirements (matter of fact, not even any aerobic requirements), students will not have to engage in physical altercations, though there will be some mild short scenarios. This isn't my CQT class, you won't have to jump anybody.