I don't think everyone should be carrying a concealed weapon.
Agreed. Many people aren't ready for the responsibility, don't want it, or have made conscious choices about what they can live with in terms of how they will act. (Whether they are realistic or not is separate from the decisions they have made currently.)
Don't get me wrong, I know it's our right and boneheaded felons and wife-beaters out there lose that right, but there are some people, law-abiding people, that do more harm than good. We've all heard the stories about the guy who uses his weapon to defend his property or the show-off who fires a shot into the wall as he's showing his buddy his new piece.
True, but....the reason those get made into such a huge deal is based on how
rarely they occur.
I feel that carrying is something that has to be earned, by demonstrating you're willing to train, to learn, to accept the consequences of what will happen to you and your family if you ever encounter a situation where deadly force is required and you choose to use it.
That, however, I disagree with strongly---because I don't think people should have to "earn" the right to defend themselves.
I see a LOT of people at the range that I wouldn't want to be using a gun in the same bay as myself, much less in public. I find many people have no concept of actual safety practice, and many people have wildly over-inflated views of their own skills.
NONE of that, to me, makes any difference as to whether or not I think they should be able to own the tools that will allow them to effectively defend themselves.
The way I think about it is this:
1) Everyone has the right to self-defense.
2) If you have the right to self-defense, then you have a right to the most effective tools for self-defense.
If you don't let people use effective tools, you are saying that some people (older, weaker, smaller, handicapped, etc) don't have the right to self-defense, because they
need those tools.
If someone says that people need to prove something before they can be allowed to have those tools, then they are saying people have to prove that they deserve a right. Or prove that their "need" is sufficient for something that is a
right.
This is separate from whether or not I'd REALLY REALLY REALLY like it if more people would actually get training. Safety training, firearm skills training, self-defense training (which is a lot more than "how to use a self-defense tool") ---- I
really wish that everyone who has a gun (of any type) would get good, quality training.
But I personally would never say that they
have to get training or prove that they'd had training before they are allowed to have what they need to effectively defend themselves.
You are now a sheepdog. If you can't handle that, it's ok to be a sheep.
I've got to admit, I hate the sheepdog/sheep terminology, because I can't stand all the nonsense that Grossman made up. When he first started doing his talks, I read his book and really got into a lot of what he said. As time went by, parts of it started to make less sense to me, and as research showed that not only was he incorrect but making up a lot of stuff that research didn't say, the whole area started to really grate on my nerves.
One of the major reasons for that is the idea of a "sheepdog" -- because we aren't. We aren't there to protect "the sheep" --- not only is that not our job, but we don't have the legal cover for doing it that LEOs have.
And calling people who may not understand the concepts of self-defense "sheep" isn't going to make any friends, and more importantly, isn't going to get them to start thinking differently. Not only that, but plenty of people who are clueless about self-defense concepts find, when it comes down to it, that they CAN defend themselves. (Obviously it is much easier, and you are much more likely to be safe, if you have training, understand the law, and are paying attention.)
I personally think that everyone should have access to the tools we have deemed effective for self-defense purposes. If we say that someone can't, then we are saying that they don't deserve to be able to defend themselves.
IMO.