ok, i am looking for a small 9mm or 40S&W. i would like it to be able to carry it in my front pocket. weight and size are concerns. i have a Ruger LCR, but i'm not fond of using it because i'm a lefty and its not fast reloading. i tried a few pistols, but nothing has really caught my attention. the biggest things for me are ambi controls and size/weight.
so basically i have a requirements:
1. ambi controls - safety, mag release, etc
2. 9mm or 40 S&W
3. must be somewhat compact for front pocket carrying
4. i prefer USA made, but willing to look at all options
5. doesn't cost a ton.
6. will be used specifically for CCW
so, please help me out.
A number of people have already replied, but something struck me about your requirements, so I thought I'd ask---you want a small (read: tiny) gun for front pocket carry, yet you are worried about reloading speed? And there is something wrong with a revolver for a left-handed person? I'm a lefty, and I'm not understanding that.
If you are worried about capacity---then front pocket carry probably isn't the best choice. If you aren't locked into front pocket carry, it opens up all sorts of other choices.
If you are locked into pocket carry---either you are going to need huge pockets, or it is going to be 1) tiny, 2) low capacity, 3) painful for recoil unless it is a .22, .25, or .32, and 4) slow to access and use.
Even with huge pockets, you are still going to be stuck with #4.
S&W 442 or 642 are always good choices, if you have to. (And if you can actually fit a revolver in your pocket. I must say that for actual front pants-pocket carry, I haven't seen many people able to manage much in the way of a gun without it being uncomfortable and obvious, and REALLY slow to access.)
For 9mm, there are a number of small guns available---Kel-Tec PF 9, the subcompact Kahrs, etc. (None of which are fun to shoot or practice with.) Very few guns are fully ambidextrous. The slide stop/release is pretty much always on that left side. Like I said, I'm also left-handed, and haven't found this to really be an issue.
...but is there a reason it must be pocket carry?
As for a 40 vs a 9----lower capacity, significantly more recoil, and pretty much nothing in the way of increased effectiveness. If you have to go with a 9 or a 40---get the 9.